Most agent demos forget everything between calls. That works for toy scripts. It breaks the moment you want an agent that improves over a week of work.
Memory is not one thing. It is several different stores that solve different failure modes.
The context window is your agent's working memory. It is fast and expensive. Keep it for the current task only.
For anything that spans sessions you need retrieval. Vector stores are the current default. Embed past steps, tool results, and user feedback. Retrieve the top-k relevant chunks when the agent starts a new step.
They are good for semantic similarity. They are bad at exact sequences and time.
Store the actual trace: "on June 20 at step 4 I called the pricing API and got 429, then retried with backoff".
This is gold for debugging and for the agent to avoid repeating the same mistake.
A simple JSONL file or a small SQLite table works on consumer hardware. No fancy embedding required for the first version.
Some agents need durable facts.
Put this in a key-value store or a small Postgres. Update it explicitly when the agent learns something trustworthy.
Do not trust the LLM to remember it correctly inside the context.
Start with good system prompts and short context.
Add vector retrieval when the agent needs to reference past research or documentation.
Add episodic traces when you see it repeating the same errors across runs.
Add persistent facts when user preferences or long-running state actually matter.
The goal is not maximum memory. The goal is the smallest memory surface that makes the agent reliable for the job.
Most production agents I have shipped use two or three of these stores. Never all of them at once until the pain was real.
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